The couple in a new interview with punch revealed they met
on twitter, and his wife confessed she never knew who he was until they started
dating. Quite interesting. Their story;
How long have you been married?
How did you meet?
Precious: I met him on Twitter. I can’t remember who
followed who first, but I remember he put up a picture of his apartment and I
commented without knowing who he was. He
thanked me and we got talking. We moved the conversation from Twitter to phone,
then to Skype. I was in Ireland, came to Nigeria for Christmas and we met in
person.
2shotz: I went to see her at a restaurant in Ajao Estate,
Lagos. We had been talking on phone for a while before then. We ate, I went to
drop her at home. Her family and friends knew who I was. Apparently, she did
not know me until they started to hail me. Later, we went to a bar, had drinks
there and we just clicked. It was not planned neither did I have it in mind
that this was what I wanted to do. At that time, I was not trying to be in a
relationship.
What were the qualities that attracted you to him?
Precious: I was
eating when he walked in for our first date and I was put off by his bald head
and beard. People say guys with such looks are not good and I felt was trouble.
Even though I had seen him in pictures, seeing him up close was quite
different. But I found him to be very sweet.
2shotz: I like dark-skinned women and like I said earlier, I
was not looking for a relationship. She is dark-skinned and her attitude was
nothing like that of the average girl. What really got me was when we went to
church for the crossover service and there was a prayer point about getting
husbands and wives. While the prayer was going on, I was not praying but she
held my hand and prayed. Nobody had ever done that to me.
How long did you date?
2shotz: We did not date for too long.
How have you coped with fame?
Precious: When I found out who he was, I was not exactly
comfortable with it. First of all, he was not my ideal man. In my line of work
as a medical scientist, I was looking for a guy who had a nine-to-five job. But
I fell in love. Besides, you don’t always get what you want, not because it is
not right for you but because God has other plans for you. I was not looking for an artiste because my
father is one. He played with Oliver De Coque and my mother used to tell me
stories of how he changed women.
At some point we broke up and some of his close relations
and manager talked to me on why I should not walk out of the relationship. When
we first met, he had so many girls around him and I wondered where my place was
in the multitude. As far as coping with his stardom is concerned, I just go with
the flow. It's fun and I get to meet a lot of celebrities. I take pictures with
them and my friends in Ireland think I am living the life in Nigeria.
How would you describe being married?
Precious: It has been good and different because you have
this person who is always telling you what to do. It took me time to get used
to having to submit wholly. In Ireland, I started making my own money at age 16
and by the time I was 18, I had my own apartment. I had become used to being
independent.
You had to
relocate to Nigeria…
Precious: It was not an easy decision because my family is
in Ireland and I miss them. I am glad I am here for a good reason and learning
to be a wife. It’s great to be together in one place.
What has marriage taught you?
2shotz: I have learnt a lot of things they just never tell
you. There is no interesting thing about being married except for the
companionship and it saves you some money. You no longer have to eat out and
you don’t have to spend money on a couple of girls. Now, it’s just your wife.
It also prevents you from doing some things that are either promiscuous or
unnecessary.
When you quarrel, who is the first to apologise?
2shotz: Anybody apologises.
Precious: It is not anybody. He is stubborn and does not
believe he is wrong. He thinks because he is older than I am, he is never
wrong. His favourite sentence to me is, ‘I am telling you this because I have
the experience.’
Is there anything
you would like to change about each other?
2shotz: Her mouth. You know how women talk, they are never
satisfied.
Precious: That I don’t like certain things about him does not mean I can’t live with it. But I will like him to be less stubborn. He is an Igbo man who is deeply rooted in the Igbo culture which makes him think in a certain way. At times, he is not willing to bend the rules just to make it happen. I am just learning the values and tradition of my people.
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